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| Some of the "mighty" men...este brothers that joined in the discussion :-) |
The title above is not mine. I got it from a question that one of our older brothers in our Catholic christian community posted (Jess Libres) at the Sowers Field Community Facebook page - stated /asked below ...and take a look at how each father ( our brothers) discussed about it ....(I and ate Vilma just hopped in to break the ice ....I liked so much the conversations and I had so much fun hahahah :-) HAPPY FATHER'S DAY BROTHERS and my HUSBAND too:-) MICHAEL :-)
The following was a candid discussion from those brothers and sisters that participated ...very challenging ha:-)
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Jessie T. Libres yaw believe nako kay mas believe ko nimu oi...luhod luhod gud Lilit imuha:)
June 11 at 5:01pm · · 1
Rolando Idano Mesias hekhekhek..luhod luhod ilawom sa katre...namuspos og silhig..."gawas diha ,gawas diha!"
June 11 at 5:03pm · · 1
Rolando Idano Mesias basin dili sila good husband kay DILI PUD good ilang mga wives?
June 11 at 5:04pm · · 1
Rolando Idano Mesias di pa naay kanta ni ambot kinsa to nga singer..inog ang lyrics "HE CAN BE ROMEO IF YOU ACT LIKE JULIET"...saon nga puro man Romeo, o di ba puro Juliet...mao ng BUGNO!!!
June 11 at 5:05pm · · 1
Jessie T. Libres Ang man mahimong woman usahay...naa pud woman, woman pud ang gusto...kay ang kadaghana sa man na woman pagka dugay:)
June 11 at 5:10pm · · 1
Dang Demata-Libed
hmmm from what i experienced with my husband...he leads the family in prayer...discusses everything with me...makes it a point that i won't worry where he is and so i get to be informed about where he is...a good provider:-)... looks after my welfare...health and our future baby:-) ...really knows how to listen... likes to laugh with me and talks about anything... including backbiting wahahahhha joke lang ... my husband is my best friend...i look forward to going home also knowing that I am really "home" with someone that's very responsible and God fearing...and hey ...no secrets...everything is out in the open:-) heheh and it is so good to argue with him:-) hehehe God bless the Philipppines ...happy independence day brothers and sistersJune 12 at 10:48am · · 2
Dang Demata-Libed thanks kuya Jess sa imo thought and heart provoking ...challenge for discussions hehehe God bless
June 12 at 10:48am · · 1
Rolando Idano Mesias agoy asa man ang mga bana nga dapat mutubag ani...Ruemzreal Alonzo-rellon, Renan Mendoza, Renante Yanez, Rudney LoVirtz Madelo Gabac, Jun Banaag, Jun Daligdig, Joseph Roxas Daclan, Joseph Cloyd Joseph Cloyd Lofranco Lamberte, Alfredo V. Fabi..og uban pa.
Vilma Sta Rosa Villa
aw, abi nako for the boys ra ni nga post gibasa nko balik nagmention man diay og sister and bros. si brod Jess. hehehe... well anyway for me, i think there's no such thing as good husbands only good wives! whehehe..joke! Bitaw serious, I've...See MoreJune 12 at 9:54pm · · 2
Vilma Sta Rosa Villa To add, I really love the character of Richard Gomez as Marco in the teleserye "Walang Hanggan" because as a husband he always see to it that he is honest to his wife. He never keeps secret even to the extent of seeing his one true love but since he is married to his wife he sees to it that he can be trusted. whehehe.... niabot nko sa teleserye
June 12 at 9:59pm · · 2
Joseph Cloyd Lofranco Lamberte
ehehe....nia ra ko...present..eheheh............nagpahipi rako sa daplin kai....ehehe pero for me, brod jess' question has a vast consideration....i believe that the qualities of a "GOOD HUSBAND" that you are talking about can and must be identified before marriage. Good qualities in a husband can affect the entire dynamic of the marriage and help ensure that the marriage will be longer lasting and happier. This simply means that it depends on how one defines the being "A GOOD HUSBAND" and how the couples live their lives...because basically, husbands can be GOOD or BAD depending on how their wives sees them according to their own individual checklists......mao lang sa na ako......hope it helped....
June 13 at 8:04am · · 2
Jessie T. Libres But there are also single men that are not so good in dealing with their families and in their friends but when they settle down getting married, they are so good husband if not best depending on how you look at it. I guess it has to do with attitudes, upbringing, habits, dedications and values maybe?
June 13 at 9:11am · · 1
Joseph Cloyd Lofranco Lamberte
Pre, kung ato pa na e-explain sa mathematics pre, mao ni.....
POSITIVE x POSITIVE = POSITIVE,
meaning:
a good husband with a good wife = GOOD, HAPPY COUPLE, LIFE..
POSITIVE x NEGATIVE = NEGATIVE,
meaning:
if one of them is good and the other is not = there is always a disagreement and may lead to a miserable life...One will always complain the doings of the other....you know what i mean...
AND,...
NEGATIVE x NEGATIVE = POSITIVE,
meaning:
even if both are not good, there is a great percentage that they can still get along with each other....and have their own version of happy life...the wife may still be able to say that her husband is good...good for her...hehehe...
So, pili lang ta kung asa ta ani.....June 13 at 9:57am · · 3
Jessie T. Libres In electronics explainantion...if puro positive...mingaw man...puro pud negative...SABA kaau oi...pero if negative and positive or vice versa...aw lingaw kaayo pre...lingaw lugar si misis or mister hehehe
Rolando Idano Mesias Aguy mag MANAGEMENT side pud ko ani...pero gadali ko..naa ko tripppp..so unyanalang apas ra ko ninyo..duna pa dihay Electician side?
Joseph Cloyd Lofranco Lamberte oi pero pre April 2, how does the electronic explanation relate to ur question pre....?...ask lang ko ha....hehehe
Jessie T. Libres Aw related kaayo siya kay better gyud ang husband if positive ang wife, ma ignite man gyud if postive ang wife...aheeem
Jessie T. Libres Wala man kay...we can become a good husband if our wife has a positive traits and a positive outlook to guide us kay mosimang baya usahay ra pud heheheh...
Joseph Cloyd Lofranco Lamberte pero unsa meaning sa mingaw ug saga kau pre? ang imo electronic explanation man gud ki direct opposite sa mathematic explanation...hehehe....ambot lang kha napod sa management explanation ni lando unya,,,hahaha...abangan... .hehehe
June 13 at 12:04pm · · 1
Jessie T. Libres Hahahahah...to prove my electronics illustrations...mingaw au pre if positive kay mga GOOD=positive+positive baya. If negative kay mga BAD= negative+negative baya so SABA au kay sige away man pre...so KUHA MO? hehehhe
Joseph Cloyd Lofranco Lamberte ah ok, so lets just say that its the other side of the coin.....hehe
June 13 at 12:22pm · · 1
Rolando Idano Mesias
Mao ni ang MANAGEMENT sa usa ka good husband. He is good because he PLANS advance, someone who always sees the future--para masakpan dayon ang kilit ba. Then it does not stop in the planning, a good husband also LEADS...dili noon maoy i lead. A good husband also ORGANIZES...dili siya kalat og idea, og mga activities for both to enjoy (including the whole family). It does not stop there..a good husband CONTROLS the situation, aron lig-on og kasaligan ang relasyon. There is an acronym for this , and this is PLOC - for Planning, Leading, Organizing and Controlling.....mao o ni'y management side of being a good husband. Kinsa'y PLOC diha...dili UHAW ha? ikaw Jophel Apdian..unsa man ka?June 13 at 8:33pm · · 3
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June 14 at 8:40am · · 2
Jessie T. Libres
1. Thou shall not take thy wife for granted, but will honor and respect her as thy equal.
2. Thy highest allegiance, except God, shall be to thy wife, not thy relatives or friends. (Gen 2:24)
3. Thou shall frequently tell thy wife how important & valuable she is to thee. (Phil 2:3; Prov 31:10
4. Thou shall hold thy wife's love by the same means that thou won it.
5. Thou shall actively establish family discipline with thy wife's help. (Eph 6:4)
6. Remember to do all the little things for thy wife when you say you will. (Mt 5:37)
7. Keep your eyes on thy own wife, not thy neighbors. (Prov 5:15-20; Job 31:1; Jer 5:8)
8. Thou shall make every effort to see things from thy wife's point of view. (Gen 21:12)
9. Thou shall not fail to kiss thy wife every morning.
10. Thou shall not be stingy with thy wife when it comes to money.
June 14 at 10:49am · · 2
Jessie T. Libres A good husband will always see to it that there is work to be done on their relationship or marriage and his own self also.
June 14 at 12:10pm · · 1
Joseph Cloyd Lofranco Lamberte basin nagtuo pa nga ulitao pa....hehehe..joke lang....
June 14 at 5:21pm · · 1
Jessie T. Libres
Work daily on improving your relationship with God
Read the Bible daily, and pray daily
Visit church regularly - and take your wife with you
Be an example to your wife about how to serve God
Love your wife with all of your heart
Tell her every day that you love her
Show her that you love her by always putting her first
Don't linger on her faults – we all have faults
Keep looking for more reasons to adore her
Be her knight, her leader, her hero
Buy her flowers – especially on special occasions
Don't be shy to show everyone that you love your wife
Hug her and kiss her – yes, even in public, and especially in front of the children
Show real appreciation for all she does for you.
Friday at 6:48am · · 1
Vilma Sta Rosa Villa super dooper like! If only husbands are following what brod. Jessie T. Libres commented, wives would be happier. hehehe...
Friday at 1:24pm · · 1
Diosdado Jonix Enopia for me its very difficult to answer ... but i worked so very hard for my family and always said appreciation to God Everyday and night for the good health and for the happy family using the words LORD YOUR WILL BE DONE...
Friday at 8:32pm · · 2
Jessie T. Libres Ako bitaw bro, from second life after sendong to homeless until now pero pasalamat ug serve guihapon sa Ginoo kay naa man ang pamilya ug pretty na misis hehehe...sipsip au ko no...God will make a WAY everyday bro. God Bless.
Friday at 8:36pm · · 3
Jessie T. Libres A good husband means very willing to listen, not just to our wife words, but to our wife more quiet gestures. Every woman is different and communicates in different ways and as her hubby it is our job to figure it out. God Bless...
Saturday at 9:10am · · 2
Jessie T. Libres Sa mga husbands diha and Happy fathers day and night gahapon...wala na ba mo ikadugang ug ikatampo kay in a day or tomorrow, i'll close na this sharing...
9 hours ago · · 1
Rolando Idano Mesias Beleive gyud ko ani ni Bro Jessie T. Libres..PhD gyud siya..Dr. of Husbandry..PhD...
7 hours ago · · 1
HAhahahaha!
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