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I
remember discussing about simplicity with my Spiritual director – Fr
Frank. I told him that time about my
struggle with it. He affirmed
with me in that. The more when one would
literally follow Christ. Hard as it is,
but one would reap wisdom as one would trace its path.
Why
am I sharing this? I was confronted with
this issue lately. Being married and
without the regular full time income with only a husband to rely on the major
family expenses is a big challenge for me.
I realize I had to trim down lots of expenses such that :
1.
I no longer eat out as much as I want to
2.
I get to focus on
the most basic of family expenses such food and other bills
3.
Regular monthly
prenatal check up
4.
Vitamins to take in
(my husband does provide us – baby and myself – on this)
5.
Stuffs for the baby
( I had such a lengthy list from clothes, feeding bottles, sterilizer, crib,
stroller, etc. that I had to scrap out the unnecessary ones …good thing my
sister – in – law gave us some of her babies unused clothes )
6.
Set aside for my
delivery come September (had to continue my SSS and philhealth contributions as
my way of contributing to lightening up the expenses)
7.
No major trips at
this time (actually I did not have any for almost a year now except for the
previous company travel last December of 2011…thanks be to God I had at least
that one).
Simplicity…simplicity…simplicity. The following are the most basic and
beautiful challenges that I get to learn lately…
1.
Stick with the most basic
2.
Submit with my
husband
3.
Pray and submit
with God’s will
4.
Never to exaggerate
emotion
5.
Stick with the
truth about myself
6.
Love as much as I
can
7.
See my husband in
the eyes with his simplicity of dealing with concerns
8.
Talk it out with
and express with all honesty with my husband
( I get dozes of this lately…I call him my best friendJ
)
9.
Never to mind about
opinions of others for as long as I stick with what is true and honourable in
God’s eyes
10. To
forgive and continue loving everyday
11. Waste
a lot of time with my growing baby in my tummy (hmmm weird but I get to talk
with her a lot of times in a day… this is what I call TT & T … Touch Tummy and Talk
with our baby)
Simplicity
really comes in the smallest and most basic of life. It does not come with huge and expensive
things. It amazes me how God reflected
Himself in the simplest of things so that it is made available with everyone….
free of charge. I love it that way…. I
love God’s way of telling us that He is most available and reachable in the simplest of things, persons and life’s
events:-)
Thank
you God for Your Amazing …. Simplicity:-)
We always find joy (GOD) in the most basic of things... And yet some people find it so hard to simplify life these days.
ReplyDeleteThe wise have started to understand this. Most things are simplifying now -- Windows 7 from Vista, The new Ipad from Ipad 2. Gadgets focusing not much anymore on effects but rather on what can be more helpful. Films are going back to what we all loved before -- fantasy and tales, reminding us of our human desires and our likeliness to be evil, teaching us to be more grounded on things. I even rarely see sex scenes from Hollywood movies now. I guess the world has seen so much of vanity and pleasure, and now is slowly realizing the importance of delving into what is just needed.
It's good to be back here, friendship.
It is so good to see you again in here friendship...you just don't how i missed the exchanges like this...you are very right...and the most of joy and peace that i have experienced right now ...i see so much with simplicity:-) thanks so much for your comments...so true...very true...:-) regards to you ...God bless:=) mwah mwah and hugs
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